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		<title>The New Years&#8217; Dance</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to 2024!!! Life is like a dance, we take a few steps forward and a few back, and sometime run in circles.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://bethecatblog.com/2024/01/the-new-years-dance/">The New Years&#8217; Dance</a> appeared first on <a href="https://bethecatblog.com">Be the Cat</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="cs-content" class="cs-content"><div class="x-section e7041-e1 m5fl-0"><div class="x-row x-container max width e7041-e2 m5fl-1 m5fl-2"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e7041-e3 m5fl-3"><div class="x-text x-content e7041-e4 m5fl-4 m5fl-5"><p><b>Welcome to 2024!!!</b> Life is like a dance, we take a few steps forward and a few back, and sometime run in circles. I'm more than ready to put on my dancing shoes. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> It's time to say farewell to 2023 and look forward to 2024. Normally, I don't spend a lot of time looking back and focus more on the future, but since 2023 was a big year I wanted to spend a little time on what was accomplished.</p>
<p><b>Contents</b></p>
<ul><li><a href="#Back">The Look Back</a></li>
  <li><a href="#Forward">The Way Forward</a></li>
  <li><a href="#Gallery">Picture Gallery</a></li></ul>
<h4 id=#Back>The Look Back</h4>
<p><a href="https://bethecatblog.com/2022/01/where-do-we-go-from-here/" target="_blank">At the beginning of 2022</a> I had confirmed my decision to retire from the day job. Something that was essential to do for my overall well-being and I wanted to spend more time working on my passion projects. My timeline changed a few times and I carried over that goal into 2023. I had 3 major goals for 2023:</p>
<ol><li>Retire from the day job.</li><li>Move (I wasn't even sure where exactly at that point)</li><li>Launch my debut MG series (<a href="https://KatieMcCabeSeries.com" target="_blank">Katie McCabe</a>) with Vesuvian Books</li></ol>
<p><b><big>Retirement:</big></b></br>Retirement is not for the faint of heart. Some people have a big adjustment curve they go through when they stop working. I had planned on an adjustment period because I knew there would be a lot of things administratively that would have to be handled before I could put into action the next step. The first week of January marked my retirement, but it took several months to get everything taken care, despite having planned in advance. I miss the people I worked with, but, even though I enjoyed my job, I haven't missed it one whit.</p>
<p><b><big>The Move:</big></b></br>Mentally, moving was my biggest challenge for the year. Just trying to wrap my head around everything that needed to get done and the <b><i>how</i></b> took several months. <b><i>Overwhelm mode activated.</i></b>. I had been searching for the right place on and off over the past few years and had even put an offer in on a house. But when friends checked it out, what looked good on paper turned to dust and the offer was rescinded. Since the housing market was in such bad shape with unrealistic pricing and rates that were too high, I made the decision to rent for the time being and I couldn't be happier.</p>
<p>I settled on the where, but then had to figure out how to get me and my stuff there trying to keep isolated as much as possible for health reasons. Then a brain wave hit &hellip; do a cross country train trip. It took a little longer to arrive, but I am still happy I made that decision. It is something I've always wanted to try. (A picture gallery is below.) I am now in a cozy apartment with my best friends close by and they have been SUCH A HUGE HELP, I can never thank them enough.</p>
<p><b><big>The Series Launch:</big></b></br>In the midst of going through everything, getting things packed, and making all the arrangements for the move, I released the first book in the Katie McCabe Series, <a href="https://lianagardner.com/middle-grade/katie-mccabe-series/rain-falling-on-embers/" target="_blank"><i>Rain Falling on Embers</i></a>. It has already picked up a few awards and positive reviews. I spent the beginning of the year with my editor polishing up the second book in the series, <i>South of Happy</i> and I'm looking forward to getting it out there later this year. All of 2023 was geared toward goals to support my writing habit. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f609.png" alt="😉" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<h4 id="Forward">The Way Forward</h4>
<p>I do love a fresh, shiny new year. 365 days ahead to make things happen. Sometimes I achieve what I set out to do. Sometimes life throws a curve that makes me bob and weave, or completely derails the year to another destination. But I start each year with hope and plans and am excited to find out where I'll wind up.</p>
<p><b><big>The Plans:</big></b></p>
<ul><li>Write, write, and write some more.</li><ul><li>Go through self-edits on <i>Going Up in Flames</i> (Katie McCabe, Book 3)</li>
<li>Work through the edits my editor will give me for the same (as hard as I try to send it to him as perfect as possible, he ALWAYS has a ton of things for me to think about and adjust.)</li>
<li>Finish writing Book 1 in the Homeless Myths Series, <i>The Secret of the Redy Key</i>. I cannot wait to share this series with everyone. It has a lot of special sauce going on and I think the rest of the world will agree. </li></ul>
  <li>Get healthier. I am currently in remission (YAY!!!), but my immune system is still shot, so want to work on several avenues to help boost the immune system and give myself more resources to go into battle with. I'd love for this remission to last several years. To that end, I am focused on: <ul><li>Being more active. I have been pretty much housebound for a number of years, especially during the pandemic. So my plan is to get out more, take walks on some of the fantastic trails around me, and work up to using my vibration plate a total of 30 minutes a day (which usually results in my dancing on it if listening to music).</li><li>Improving nutrition</li><li>Searching out new treatments for dealing with cancer. I'm excited about the breakthroughs that are popping up with more frequency and have hope that one day, there will be a cure for mine.</li></ul></li>
  <li>Find my next home, rates and real estate market willing, as the current apartment is meant to be temporary.</li></ul>
<h4 id="Gallery">The Picture Gallery</h4>
<p>I figured since I had so many pictures I wanted to share, that it would be best simply to create a gallery and provide a little commentary to provide a flavor for the move.</p>
<ul><li>1. The day the stuff I was moving left. All my planning and preparation resulted in what was going and what wasn't. Everything that was making the move with me had been staged into two rooms, the first thing to be loaded were those items that were going straight into storage short-term, and the second room contained those things I needed in the apartment. The next day, everything that didn't go into the pods was cleared out and donated.</li>
<li>2-4. Fullerton Amtrak station on the day of my departure. Of course, when the freight train passed by with OOCL containers on it, I had to include them.</li>
<li>5. Arizona Mesa</li>
<li>6. Albuquerque, NM train station - one with a little style</li>
<li>7. Lamy, NM station - I couldn't resist the decorations.</li>
<li>8. Near Fort Osage Township, MO</li>
  <li>9. Crossing the Mississippi river from Iowa into Illinois - we had a well-wisher waving as we hurtled by.</li>
  <li>10. Amtrack, Chicago - where I felt like I might have dropped into a holiday gone wrong type of movie, but all was well in the end.</li>
  <li>11. Entering West Virginia and nearly to my destination.</li>
  <li>12. White Sulphur Springs Station - Cutest station on my route and where I got off.</li>
  <li>13. My friends met me at the station and we loaded up the Grand Cherokee&mdash;AFTER they found me, because everyone else got off the train at the front, but they had me depart the train at the back. (I had stored luggage that had to be taken off the train.) We had quite the load.</li>
  <li>14. But not ALL of the stuff was mine. While waiting to pick me up, they wandered into one of the boutique stores in town and <i>just had</i> to get the Christmas tree with bears climbing on it. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> I would have done the same.</li>
  <li>15. The first thing I saw when I walked into my new apartment. My friends had been busy readying the apartment while I was traveling across the country.</li>
  <li>16. My festive shower curtain. There is a light over the shower/tub so the fireplace glows when the light is on. </li>
  <li>17-18. My view through my windows. My place in CA looked out on a parking lot and all I could see from my bedroom window was the apartments behind me. I am reveling in having trees and grass outside and enjoy watching the hills.</li>
  <li>19. Still from my windows, but at night so you can see the lights from the space needle and the skybridge.</li>
  <li>20. After my initial visit with my new doctor, we went for a ride, and had just been discussion how unlikely it would be to see any bears this time of year, when a bear family came through the woods, crossed in front of our car, and continued up the hill. I'm sure they came out just to welcome me.</li>
  <li>21. It's not a holiday unless I decorate, so my fridge quickly took on some holiday cheer.</li>
  <li>22. My stuff arrived from CA and the place is starting to take on a homey feel.</li>
  <li>23. Essentials for any writer.</li>
  <li>24. My living room rug with an Amish made cherry wood cedar chest.</li>
  <li>25. My Christmas Day rainbow. </li>
  <li>26. The space needle decorated as a Christmas tree (and I caught the flashing star on top)</li>
  <li>27. Just because I love the shadows on my wall at night.</li>
  <li>28-33. The fireworks display at the space needle. I have the perfect apartment for viewing.</li>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2023 15:05:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever read a book that made you feel like you were living the story along with the characters? A book that made you think about your own life and how you would handle the challenges they faced?</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="cs-content" class="cs-content"><div class="x-section e6838-e1 m59y-0"><div class="x-row x-container max width e6838-e2 m59y-1 m59y-2 m59y-3"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e6838-e3 m59y-8"><div class="x-text x-content e6838-e4 m59y-9 m59y-a m59y-b m59y-c"><p>Have you ever read a book that made you feel like you were living the story along with the characters? A book that made you think about your own life and how you would handle the challenges they faced?</p><p>Novels are powerful. They help us understand ourselves and others better. Reading helps us cope with difficult emotions and situations, such as grief, bullying, and survival, which are common themes in middle grade and young adult books. They are also common experiences in many people's lives. If you haven’t faced some of these issues yourself, you probably know someone who has.</p><p>So how can reading novels or writing stories help us deal with these issues? And how can we use these issues to create our own stories? Here are some tips and ideas:</p></div><div class="x-text x-content e6838-e5 m59y-9 m59y-d m59y-e m59y-f m59y-g m59y-h"><h5>How Stories Help Us Deal with Strong Emotions and Situations</h5></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e6838-e6 m59y-1 m59y-2 m59y-4"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e6838-e7 m59y-8"><span class="x-image e6838-e8 m59y-m"><img decoding="async" src="https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/79616d59-47b0-4cda-b2ba-e2268922e6c4.jpg" width="400" height="400" alt="Image" loading="lazy"></span></div><div class="x-col e6838-e9 m59y-8"><div class="x-text x-content e6838-e10 m59y-9 m59y-b m59y-c m59y-e m59y-i"><ul><li><b>We feel less alone.</b> When we read about characters who are going through the same things as we are, we relate to them and feel like we have a friend who understands us. We learn from their experiences and see how they cope with their problems.</li><li><b>Reading helps us process our emotions.</b> When characters are feeling sad, angry, scared, or happy, we can empathize with them and feel those emotions too. This can help us release our own feelings and process them in a healthy way. We can also share the books we like to communicate our feelings to others.</li><li><b>We find hope and inspiration.</b> When characters overcome their difficulties and achieve their goals, we feel hopeful and motivated. We admire their courage, resilience, and creativity, and try to emulate them in our own lives. And sometimes we find ideas and solutions for our own problems.</li></ul></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e6838-e11 m59y-1 m59y-2 m59y-5"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e6838-e12 m59y-8"><div class="x-text x-content e6838-e13 m59y-9 m59y-e m59y-g m59y-h m59y-j m59y-k"><h5>How to Use Strong Emotions and Situations to Create Our Own Stories</h5></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e6838-e14 m59y-1 m59y-2 m59y-6"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e6838-e15 m59y-8"><span class="x-image e6838-e16 m59y-m"><img decoding="async" src="https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/3fdd6c0e-cd5c-4a23-833a-fa5565f511bf.jpg" width="450" height="450" alt="Image" loading="lazy"></span></div><div class="x-col e6838-e17 m59y-8"><div class="x-text x-content e6838-e18 m59y-9 m59y-b m59y-c m59y-e m59y-f m59y-j"><ul><li><b>We use our own experiences as inspiration.</b> If we have faced an issue in our own lives, we can use those memories as a starting point. We write about how we felt, what we did, and what we learned from those situations. We use our experiences as a springboard for the imagination by changing some details or adding fictional elements.</li><li><b>We use our imagination to create new scenarios.</b> If we have not faced a scenario the character in our story is facing in our own lives, we can still write about them by using our imagination. We can think of what-if questions, such as "What if I lost my best friend?" or "What if I was stranded on an island?" or "What if I was bullied at school?" We can then imagine how we would react and what would happen next.</li><li><b>Research&mdash;research&mdash;research.</b> Whether we use our own experiences or our imagination, research is essential to make our stories more authentic and accurate. Read books and articles about whatever situation has arisen in your story. Talk to people who have gone through those issues or are experts on them. Then use what you’ve learned to drop in a detail here or there which evokes emotions in those who read the story.</li></ul></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e6838-e19 m59y-1 m59y-2 m59y-7"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e6838-e20 m59y-8"><div class="x-text x-content e6838-e21 m59y-9 m59y-a m59y-c m59y-g"><p>Writing novels or stories is challenging but rewarding. <a href="https://KatieMcCabeSeries.com" target="_blank"><strong><em>Rain Falling on Embers</em></strong></a> deals with the themes of grief, bullying, survival, and love, to name a few. A challenge to write, but I am so glad I did. It turned out to be a gripping and inspiring story that shows how Katie McCabe overcomes her challenges and grows as a person, finding hope and happiness in her new surroundings.</p><p>So next time you read a book, think about how it makes you feel and what you learn from it. And next time you write a story, think about how you can use your experiences, imagination, and research to make it engaging and meaningful.</p><p>Happy reading and writing!</p></div><div class="x-text x-content e6838-e22 m59y-9 m59y-e m59y-h m59y-i m59y-l"><p>This post is part of the <a href="https://bethecatblog.com/category/writing/young-writers/">Young Writers Series: for more tips, <b><u>click here</u></b>.</a></p></div></div></div></div></div></div>
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		<title>Into the Editing Cave</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Liana Gardner]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Apr 2022 22:57:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>A writer's life is cyclical in nature. We have the shiny new idea phase, followed by the first draft, followed by self-edits (multiple rounds), then it is sent away for someone else to look at and give feedback on, and then it's back into the editing cave (these last two steps can happen multiple times), it goes to a proofreader, then (hopefully) one more go round and we have a product we can take pride in. </p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="cs-content" class="cs-content"><div class="x-section e6755-e1 m57n-0"><div class="x-row x-container max width e6755-e2 m57n-1 m57n-2 m57n-3"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e6755-e3 m57n-6"><div class="x-text x-content e6755-e4 m57n-7 m57n-8"><p>A writer's life is cyclical in nature. We have the shiny new idea phase, followed by the first draft, followed by self-edits (multiple rounds), then it is sent away for someone else to look at and give feedback on, and then it's back into the editing cave (these last two steps can happen multiple times), it goes to a proofreader, then (hopefully) one more go round and we have a product we can take pride in. By the way, I don't mention research, but that is part of every stage, from shiny new idea to proofreading.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e6755-e5 m57n-1 m57n-2 m57n-4"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e6755-e6 m57n-6"><img decoding="async"  class="x-img x-img-none"  src="https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/WritersCycle.jpg" ></div><div class="x-col e6755-e8 m57n-6"><div class="x-text x-content e6755-e9 m57n-7 m57n-9"><p>While the percentages are somewhat subjective, the chart pretty much defines the writing process, <i>NOT</i> including all of the other activities outside of writing the actual book. The bulk of the time is spent editing, revising, tweaking, and polishing. So, writers spend a lot of time in the editing cave.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">“The only kind of writing is rewriting.”<br><b>~Ernest Hemingway </b></p><p>I often get fascinated by small details that have little relevance to the task at hand &hellip; as in this case when my mind wandered off on the tangent of why writers say they are going into a cave for both writing and editing. So, I looked up the meaning behind <b><i>spelunking</i></b>. The official meaning/definition is: the exploration of caves, especially as a hobby. But that didn't shed any light on how it is used by writers.</p></div></div></div></div><div class="x-row x-container max width e6755-e10 m57n-1 m57n-2 m57n-5"><div class="x-row-inner"><div class="x-col e6755-e11 m57n-6"><div class="x-text x-content e6755-e12 m57n-7 m57n-9"><p>On my travels through the land of internet search, I found spelunking is used for the amateur cave explorer while caving is used for professional forays such as exploring from a conservation or biological standpoint and the scientific study is Speleology. A side note of interest is that spelunking is known as potholing in the UK. But that doesn't help to determine why the writing process involves the term cave for both writing and editing.</p><p>I understand the feeling &hellip; when I start a project or am in the middle of working on one, I feel as if I'm "holing up" &mdash; cutting myself off from the outside world and diving into the world of my characters. Is that enough of a meaning? Maybe &hellip; but then I ran across this little nugget from an article titled "<a href="http://www.startcaving.co.uk/why-go-caving/" target="_blank">Caving – Why Do We Do It?</a>":</p><blockquote cite="http://www.startcaving.co.uk/why-go-caving/"><i>Curiosity may be the common thread running through the many reasons for caving, but it is not a reason in itself to venture underground. For many, <b><span style="color: red;">the sheer adventure and excitement of seeking out obstacles and the satisfaction of overcoming them</span></b> are motivation enough.</i></blockquote><p>For me, that truly nails the cave aspect. As writers, we journey into a dark place, one that may only have a glimmer or two of light as we start our exploration. We know we're going to meet and have to overcome obstacles to reach journey's end. The prospect is exciting and somewhat terrifying at the same time because we venture into the unknown with only the spark of an idea as our guiding light.</p><p>As one humorist put it in the <a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=spelunking" target="_blank">Urban Dictionary</a>, "Origin: "spelunk" is the sound a clumsy caver makes when he slips and falls in a cave and lands in water." Our characters lead us astray and into dead ends, we face pitfalls, and yes, we slip and fall &hellip; often landing in either water or mud. Yet the adventure of uncovering the story drives us on. </p><p>At present I'm in the more editing, more revising, tweaking, and polishing stages of the process with <a href="https://lianagardner.com/middle-grade/falling-on-embers-series/rain-falling-on-embers/" target="_blank"><b><i>Rain Falling on Embers</i></b></a> (Mar 21, 2023/<a href="https://vesuvianmedia.com/books/" target=_blank">Vesuvian Books</a>). I have received edits back from my editor supreme, Christopher Brooks, and am entering the cave. Wish me luck and send plenty of coffee and good thoughts.</p></div></div></div></div></div></div>
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		<title>Where Do We Go From Here?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Liana Gardner]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jan 2022 00:08:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Hello 2022. So happy to see you. January 1 is always a day of great expectations for a new year. A page turned where we can put the past behind us and look forward to a full 365 days in which to make a mark. The mark I&#8217;m shooting for this year is joy and success. I&#8217;ve never been big ... <a href="https://bethecatblog.com/2022/01/where-do-we-go-from-here/" class="more-link">Read More</a></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #c30f00;"><b><big>Hello 2022.</big></b> </span>So happy to see you. January 1 is always a day of great expectations for a new year. A page turned where we can put the past behind us and look forward to a full 365 days in which to make a mark. The mark I&#8217;m shooting for this year is joy and success.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I&#8217;ve never been big on making resolutions and probably worse at rehashing what has been &hellip; but I thought I&#8217;d take a moment to reflect on where we go from here.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">To put it mildly, 2021 threw a few curve balls and caught me off balance. The biggest were to do with my health and having the chemo from  end of 2020 / beginning of 2021 spectacularly fail. Fast forward to the end of 2021 and the new chemo plus radiation I had to undergo dragged me down so much I wound up in the hospital for a week with bilateral pneumonia caused by the chemo. I am incredibly sensitive to the chemo drugs and the treatments have been robbing me slowly of the ability to breathe due to inflammation in the lungs over the past few months. I still have two more treatments to go through, although at this point, we&#8217;re not sure whether I will be able to do them. We will give it a month and then try again. The health issues and fatigue played havoc with my writing schedule, so I&#8217;m well behind on what needs to get done.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/RainFallingonEmbers_684x1026.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="450" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-6744" srcset="https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/RainFallingonEmbers_684x1026.jpg 684w, https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/RainFallingonEmbers_684x1026-200x300.jpg 200w, https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/RainFallingonEmbers_684x1026-683x1024.jpg 683w, https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/RainFallingonEmbers_684x1026-100x150.jpg 100w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />But 2021 is now in the past. What did or did not get accomplished is also in the past, and it is time to look forward. And there is so much to look forward to. More than ever, I am certain of my purpose in life &hellip; and that is to write books for kids to connect with and enjoy. And, honestly, that is the only thing that is important to me. So while not completely ignoring all other aspects of life, the thing that I will put first is my writing. It is time for me to finish up some of the projects I&#8217;ve had on a slow boil and get them finished. No more back burner.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">First up is finishing the self edits on <a href="https://lianagardner.com/middle-grade/katie-mccabe-series/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b><i>Rain Falling on Embers</i></b></a> (release date: October 3, 2023), which is book 1 in the <b>Katie McCabe series</b>. Next will be to get it to the editor who will rip it apart and help me make it what it is supposed to be. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <i>Rain Falling on Embers</i> explores the question: <b><i>How do you survive the worst thing that can ever happen?</i></b> Especially in the past couple of years, kids are facing more upheaval than ever before &mdash; where things like school, which has been more of a constant than anything, has also changed dramatically. While circumstances will vary from person to person, Katie McCabe goes through coming to terms with her entire life being turned upside down. She struggles with accepting the changes and it is important for kids to know they don&#8217;t have to be perfect through all changes. That it is okay to thrash about trying to make sense of things that simply do not make sense.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="https://lianagardner.com/middle-grade/homeless-myths/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/TheSecretoftheRedKey_684x1026.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="450" class="alignright size-full wp-image-6747" srcset="https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/TheSecretoftheRedKey_684x1026.jpg 684w, https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/TheSecretoftheRedKey_684x1026-200x300.jpg 200w, https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/TheSecretoftheRedKey_684x1026-683x1024.jpg 683w, https://bethecatblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/TheSecretoftheRedKey_684x1026-100x150.jpg 100w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>The next project that will have my attention is book 1 in the <b>Homeless Myths</b> series, <a href="https://lianagardner.com/middle-grade/homeless-myths/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b><i>The Secret of the Red Key</i></b></a>. I am so excited about this particular series because the storyline speaks to me so clearly. <i>Five homeless kids struggle to survive the streets of Los Angeles and wind up as key players in a battle against mythological creatures to break a curse that will restore a fallen star and give humanity a second chance.</i> It should be an adventure story for the ages. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f609.png" alt="😉" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">At the end of 2020, during my reflective period, I came to a decision about my future &hellip; and that decision was that in order for me to pursue more completely what I need to do with my life, the day job had to go. It&#8217;s a decision years in the making, but the time has come and despite all of the upheaval of 2021, I have kept that goal firmly in mind. While I have not accomplished everything I have wanted toward this goal, it remains in place and I will see it through. The driving force? A few lyrics from <a href="https://youtu.be/ILWSp0m9G2U" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Flashdance &#8211; What a Feeling</a> spell it out for me. <b><i>Take your passion and make it happen.</i></b> In order to do that effectively, I need to simplify life a bit, which means letting go of something I have always looked at as stability and taking a leap of faith.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The picture at the top of this post has a great deal of meaning for me. 2022 is still all glittery and shiny and though we cannot see into the future (or down the path) the bright yellow haze beckons. One of my favorite flowers is the yellow rose, so I love that they are lining the path to the future. The color yellow is primarily associated with spreading happiness and joy, and it symbolizes moving forward with the joy of working on my purpose in life. And I hope to spread happiness and joy to those I meet. And purple has always been my favorite color and purple flowers are said to symbolize success. In this case, the flowers being campanula or bellflowers, the additional meaning of gratitude, constancy, support, and romance are present. Success for me isn&#8217;t defined in monetary terms, but whether or not I have achieved what I set out to do. Would I love to have a runaway bestseller? Absolutely. But if the book falls short of my personal mark, the number of sales don&#8217;t make it better. Success for me is crafting the book in my head as close as I possibly can. Success is reaching the small goals along the way to the big ones. And joy comes from achieving those things.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So 2022, here you are in all of your shining newness. I have identified my passion and all that is left is to make it happen. Let&#8217;s do this thing.</p>
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